Online Accountability Group for Gay Men
Are you a gay man looking for support in being accountable?
If you've caused harm to an intimate partner—or if you've been told that you have—that can feel like a weight you need to carry alone and in silence. This group is an invitation to do that heavy lifting with the support of others.
We're a closed, confidential, cohort of gay men doing the honest, direct work of accountability: naming what happened, understanding why, and learning to live in alignment with our values.
Participation in the group begins with a brief intake conversation to make sure it's a good fit.
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This group is being run under the umbrella of Project: Shifts, a group supporting men in healing and accountability work through groups and 1:1 coaching. Learn more about Shifts here.
Important Information:
Duration: 10 weeks
Location: Online encrypted video call
When: Mondays
October 12–December 14
6:30–8:00pm PT (90-mins)
Who:
Facilitated by Mike Nelson and Julian Ward (bios below)
For gay men
Cost: Sliding scale. $100–500 for the full program, paid in full before first session.
You’re invited to self-select a fee that is sustainable for you. As a general guide:
If you have access to stable income, savings, property, or other forms of wealth, contribute toward the higher end of the scale.
If you’re meeting basic needs but have little discretionary income, the middle range may be appropriate.
If you’re experiencing financial strain or have limited access to income or wealth, the lower end of the scale may be available. If this is entirely outside of what's possible for you, please let us know. We do not want people turned away due to lack of funds.
Mike Nelson
With nearly two decades of experience facilitating restorative and transformative conversations, Mike creates spaces where people can explore accountability, healing, and human connection. Having lived on both sides of harm, he believes accountability is liberating and becomes possible through honest conversation, compassion, and care. He is the executive director and co-founder of Kid C.A.T.
Julian Ward
Julian is a restorative justice facilitator, trainer, and accountability coach with over 10 years of experience supporting people with difficult conversations in the aftermath of harm. His focus is on shifting a culture of fear, isolation, and domination to one of love, nurturance, and interdependence. Find out more here.
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